Jul
20
Model T’s and Loved Ones
Filed Under Fatherhood
I saw a beautiful Model T the other day. This 90 year-old entry-level vehicle is shown below. It amazes me that a caring owner can keep something this old in such good working order.
Since America is an instant gratification society with an ever-declining attention span, I was delighted to see this piece of human accomplishment so well-maintained and well cared for. It brought to mind some important facts.
There are many parallels between taking care of a motor vehicle and taking care of your loved ones. For husbands and fathers, it is important to know that the values that make cars last also make relationships last.
Preventative Maintenance – The Model T obviously required an inordinate amount of maintenance over the years from its owner. Preventative maintenace is part of being a great husband and great father. It takes years and years of daily care and attention in any relationship to build up a level of trust.
Patience – A loving relationship requires extraordinary amounts of patience and work. It is easier to get into flings and shallow relationships/friendships, but the rewards aren’t as great. The rewards of an honest, patient relationship are worth it. A high level of trust makes it easier to get through the rough patches.
Pride – The man who owned the Model T took time out of his day to explain to me the nuances of his vehicle. He showed me the old-fashioned horn, the gears and the antique headlights. His actions and demeanor spoke for themselves. Pride in your loved ones comes from patience and mutual respect. Pride is not buying an expensive ring, it is holding the door; fifty years later.
Takeaway: There are some cars that are new and flashy that never satisfy an impatient owner for very long. A luxurious Buick or Cadillac, well-maintained and well-cared for, only gets better with age.
Your family is with you from the time you are an infant until the time you have children or grandchildren of your own. Treat them them with pride and your investment will last a lifetime.
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